Between August and November 2025, the Philippine National Police documented 6,883 cases of Violence Against Women and Children (VAWC). Among those affected is "Berta," an incoming Grade 12 student from Davao City who lived through years of physical abuse at home.
Christmas 2025 Triggers Memories
Berta recalled Christmas 2025, when a family argument over money escalated into shouting. His father accused an older brother of wasting money on drugs and gambling. For Berta, the scene brought back memories of being beaten as a child. "Wala mo naulaw na daghang tao nanan-aw nato?" Berta shouted at his parents, expressing fury that the conflict erupted on Christmas Day.
A Childhood Marked by Violence
At age seven, Berta's eldest brother began physically abusing him and his six siblings. "Walang araw na hindi kami binubugbog," Berta recalled. The beatings were frequent and unexplained. When Berta asked their mother why nothing was done, she replied, "Sagdaa lang nang kuya nimo kay ana lang jud na siya." As a teenager, Berta threatened to file a case, but his father dismissed it, asking who would support them.
Finding a Safe Space in Theater
Berta's life changed when a friend introduced him to Amaya Lay in Mindanao Inc., a non-government organization that uses creative arts for child rights advocacy. Many members are Children Affected by the War on Drugs (CAWOD). Berta found understanding and a safe space where mistakes were met with guidance, not violence. "Napakalaking tulong kasi nawala yung trauma ko pagpasok ko dito," Berta said. The shy child gained confidence, even embracing his crooked teeth: "Kasi maganda naman ako."
Support Beyond the Stage
When financial problems threatened Berta's education in Grade 11, Amaya Lay provided school supplies, printing support, and financial aid. "Nung nalaman nila na hindi na ako pumapasok ng paaralan, doon sila nag-take action," Berta said. The support allowed him to continue studying.
Hope for Others
Berta now dreams of becoming a doctor or nurse, though college remains uncertain due to finances. He hopes his story builds empathy and awareness. "Sana kahit hindi mo ito nararanasan, sana magkaroon ka ng empathy," Berta said. He wants other young people to know they are not alone and that they can file cases against family abuse. "Kailangan nilang malaman yung mga story namin."
